'Friends'
What is the definition of close friend to you? What kind a person or who IS truly your close friend? Ever ask yourself that?
Whatever I'm going to say somewhat applies to people we call 'Best Friends'
This is a definition by a person I found on Yahoo! :
" A "close friend" can mean a few things. My personal definition of it is someone who you can talk to about anything, someone who doesn't judge you no matter what, and someone who adds fun and positive things into your life. If you only regularly talk to them at school or work or if you go out with them occasionally but don't have deep conversations with them, then I'd consider them just a friend."
Many of us, Maybe including me, label those who we always hang out with as our 'Close Friends', but, are they really our close friends?
True/Close friends help you when you're in trouble or gives a helping hand when you're in a mess. They are there for you when no one else does and they listen to what you have to say.
But some people just takes you for granted. For example, you listened to all your friend's problems, offered to help, gave advice and always supported him/her. But when you're in trouble and don't know what to do, that friend of yours just replies you 'lol' , 'k' and every sign of no interest. Then he/she doesn't give a damn nor give suggestion. What kind of 'close friend' is that? I have encountered such people and really despise them.
There are also friends that think everyone should accommodate with him/her. For example, they ask you to hang out, study together somewhere, etc. When you've REARRANGED your schedule and forked out time for him/her, he/she ends up telling you "Nevermind I'm not going.", "Hey pal, newtons already, someone else is going with me" and all those crap. Seriously they are your friends not your spare tyres! If you don't appreciate them someone else will, if they leave you in the end, blame yourself.
There are so many people out there that label themselves as someone's best friend or close friend but doesn't act like one. Really despise such people. Don't blame anyone but yourself when you realise that all your real friends are gone.
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